|
Post by Debbi on Jan 21, 2006 4:38:32 GMT -5
Bob,Susan,Bill,Paul,& John. Your heartfelt invitation to all of the fans for a special memorial for your brother is so breathtakingly wonderful. This is truly beyond my wildest dreams. Certainly deserving for just family and friends. And I wished that I could be there. But since its a bit of a month away. I am working on a plan now, to push it, on getting there. I want to say my good-bye's to Barry. It's my last chance. Thanks to you, Cowsill Family! I will never forget this! From the very bottom of my heart. May I just say: I Love You All!!!
Love, Debbi
|
|
|
Post by Sandy on Jan 21, 2006 7:45:54 GMT -5
Bob, I want to echo what many others have said. Thank you for including the fans in the memorial service and "party" for Barry. That was so thoughtful. I want to be there, but I have west coast relatives flying in that day. Depending on the time, maybe I can at least make the memorial service. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Cowsills at this difficult time.
Love, Sandy
|
|
|
Post by MOSSE on Jan 21, 2006 10:34:43 GMT -5
Bob, is Billy well enough to be able to attend the Memorial Service and party?
|
|
|
Post by cynthia on Jan 21, 2006 11:13:44 GMT -5
Looks like the chat room's available so we could meet in there at a set time. cowsill.com/chat.htmlWe can set this up when we know more, if you like. What does everyone think? Yes ma'am, name the time and I'll be there!
|
|
|
Post by Brina on Jan 21, 2006 11:44:42 GMT -5
I too agree that the activating of cell phones at any sort of memorial gathering is not appropriate. Aside from the noises they make, there'd be talking into the phone, and just a general lessening of the intensity of the moment. Think of how that would feel to the people there.
Perhaps the family will decide to have photos or video made of the gathering. I know that I was very sensitive to this when we had services for my son, mother, and father. Even a family member shooting video of us felt a bit intrusive, and we were having an informal gathering remembering my mother. So I think we all need to be thoughtful in this area, much as we'd all like to "be there".
|
|
|
Post by ctcowsillfan on Jan 21, 2006 12:07:22 GMT -5
I was thinking that too Brina. Not to worry, we're just tossing around ideas Lauren
|
|
|
Post by ctcowsillfan on Jan 21, 2006 12:08:48 GMT -5
hey MossE,
I was wondering about Billy, also. At any rate, I do hope he is doing better.
Lauren
|
|
|
Post by debbi on Jan 21, 2006 13:45:52 GMT -5
im not getting this ,like i told susan, im not to familiar with comp.i belive you have had barry s service and the picture i saw was lovely and he s in heaven he s been...love to allim wishing i could visit you.love debbi
|
|
katel
New Member
Posts: 12
|
Post by katel on Jan 21, 2006 13:46:11 GMT -5
Oh gosh, I was not thinking of any attempt at intruding in the actual memorial service at Halidon Hall. That would be inappropriate in any fashion unless initiated by the family. I thought people were talking about trying to connect briefly at the party in the evening. I took the use of the word "party" to mean a boisterous, crowded affair. I would scrap the whole idea if this isn't the case.
|
|
mavisluvsnanniayahoocom
Guest
|
Post by mavisluvsnanniayahoocom on Jan 21, 2006 13:58:58 GMT -5
thank you bob for this may be seeing you all sooner than i wished maybe johanna szabo and i could get there together it sounds exactly perfect what your doingl.Susan your probably so sick of this q..will you sing a song suited for barrys peaceful wakings? I love you all i wish yiuou could pick me up...love debbi bushard
|
|
shirl
New Member
It's A Time For Remembrance
Posts: 21
|
Post by shirl on Jan 21, 2006 17:03:08 GMT -5
To everyone interested in an online memorial service for Barry:
I have asked Vicky if she would mind if we used the chat room to do this and she gave the go ahead because she knows we'll all be in spirit together on that day.
I know the lovely Lauren, Patty and AnnMarie will be there and will be sharing much news with all of us and giving all our love and prayers on our behalf as well.
If you are interested in taking part, please pm me here or email me with any questions or times that would be good for you or suggestions. It's true the room doesn't have sound but I LOVE the idea of playing a song at the same time in honor of Barry. I think once we find out when the memorial begins in real time, we can corralate our tribute to play at the very same time.
I know this is a hard thing for all of us to do; say goodbye to that beautiful man, but I'm soooo glad I got the opportunity to know some of you and share in this time.
If you you need to email me it's : sweet_sabrina_bc@yahoo.com
|
|
|
Post by Kittygirlsmom Lee on Jan 21, 2006 19:41:36 GMT -5
I would like to be interested in the on- line memorial. Kittygirlsmom
|
|
shirl
New Member
It's A Time For Remembrance
Posts: 21
|
Post by shirl on Jan 21, 2006 23:08:02 GMT -5
I would like to be interested in the on- line memorial. Kittygirlsmom Lee, Just send me your email addy or watch the forum for more details. As more people get express and interest, we can plan the how's, when's and what's. Take care
|
|
|
Post by Deb Watkins on Jan 22, 2006 13:25:46 GMT -5
Bob,
Thank you for the update. I am grateful and honored that you and your family invited us all to Barry's memorial and party. As I shared with you in an email, I have fond memories of meeting Barry at the Texas State Fair, and I have and will continue to carry that memory with me. You are a wonderful and most gracious family. I agree with Kate that it's no wonder we all love you all so much.
I have contacted one of my friends to see if there is any way we can possibly attend. Fortunately, she is in the airline industry, so it is not out of the question, but if we don't make it from Dallas, TX, please know that we will be there in thought, prayer and spirit.
My love to all,
Deb
|
|
lindy
New Member
Posts: 22
|
Post by lindy on Jan 22, 2006 21:30:08 GMT -5
I will be making the online memorial service...remember the different time zones, too...but if we know the time the actual service starts, then we should be able to figure out the time in our own zones...
|
|
dancr4ever
New Member
Barry Cowsill Rules!
Posts: 10
|
Post by dancr4ever on Jan 22, 2006 23:51:13 GMT -5
Most definitely cell phones don't belong turned on at all during the service. That would be disrespectful. It's a very solemn, serious occasion and I agree with Barbm and Brina.
|
|
|
Post by Brina on Jan 23, 2006 11:28:32 GMT -5
I am a bit embarrassed that I jumped all over that cell phone idea, cautioning people not to turn them on during any ceremony. I think the original poster meant during the "party" gathering later...anyway, I'm a bit Miss Manners sometimes, and I apologize if I over-reacted.
I have a notion to try to get to Rhode Island for that special day and night, but if I don't make it, I will do the virtual gathering with the rest of the wonderful Cowsill extended family.
I keep thinking about the dream I had while Barry was missing, and how he was dressed all in white, and we were all celebrating his being "found", honoring him with a cake, and music, and even a musical performed ("My Fair Lady"!), and the songs and smiles and sense of celebration...it seems like a party of sorts, that dream. I'm glad I wrote it down here and at Susan's site. And I know Barry will be at the memorial service and party, on many levels.
Love, Brina
|
|
|
Post by Janermn on Jan 23, 2006 16:37:49 GMT -5
I can't be there in person either but will light a candle and say a prayer for Barry and your family Bob. I'd also like to thank you for including the fans at such an important time, it really does mean alot. God bless, Jane, Jenna and Kelli R.
|
|
|
Post by Brina on Jan 23, 2006 19:13:20 GMT -5
I've never been to Newport. Is there a hotel that cowsill.com people prefer? I'm only at the investigation stage but wondered if anybody has thoughts on this. Thanks.
|
|
shirl
New Member
It's A Time For Remembrance
Posts: 21
|
Post by shirl on Jan 23, 2006 23:54:53 GMT -5
I can't be there in person either but will light a candle and say a prayer for Barry and your family Bob. I'd also like to thank you for including the fans at such an important time, it really does mean alot. God bless, Jane, Jenna and Kelli R. Jane, Feel free, if you wish to join those of us who can't make it to Rhode Island on the 18th in the chat room for an online memorial for Barry.
|
|